I'm Not Sure How to Deal with a Ghost

I just don't know what to do.  I've never been in this situation before, and not sure if it's worth trying to stick it out.  I'm in a relationship, sort of, but feel like the 'other man'.  The sad part is, the one that my partner spends more time thinking of has been dead for about 3 years or so.  I don't know how to deal with a ghost in the relationship.  My heart's been broken several times, and the duct tape doesn't seem to be working anymore.

A Truly Amazing Birthday, and More!!!

Married Viktor Sandman

Today is my birthday!  Yes, big number 46!  I had the most wonderful day yesterday thanks to my sweet beautiful SL hubby JJ and my beautiful soul twin Belle (as well as everyone who helped them hide it from me...you little stinkers).  I love you all so very much.  You make my life so happy and full, and you have no idea how much you all mean to me!  I love you all very much!!

Another truly amazing event happened yesterday!  JJ and I partnered in SL, and on FB!!!  It was so amazing to be surrounded by loved ones and have the man you love want to become your other half.  I love you baby, always and forever!!!  xoxoxo

POST #2: Your Trash Is Someone's Treasure

In my opinion, every breakup has an unseen version...the one that is the reality.  Knowing all of the people I do in SL, I find that there are versions from all parties involved, then the one that includes bits of all of those versions, plus the real facts.

Letting go of someone means just that...letting go.  Move on and find your happiness, and let them find theirs as well.  If you can't say something nice, then shut the fuck up!  How hard is that to learn?  Most of us learned it as children, and, unless you never grew up, you should remember this.

Just sayin'!

Post Number One - What the hell am I doing?

I'm not quite sure where this blog will go, but I look forward to the journey.  So many days I have thoughts running through my head and let them go without examining them.  I guess maybe this will be the 'examination' room for those thoughts.

If there's something you'd like to know, or want my opinion on, or whatever, feel free to leave me a post here, or hit me up on Facebook!  I'd love to make this as interactive as possible!

I suggest you sit back, relax, order a cocktail, and enjoy the ride.  Oh yeah, you might want to fasten your seatbelt because this sucker may get bumpy at times!

Happy new year 2016 to you all, and see you soon!
Viktor